You know that feeling when you have the right amount of energy and your head is feeling clear? Some call it being healthy.
I am there.
I have energy, actual energy. I want to get out of bed and do stuff. Like my workout or making food or writing a real blog entry. If I am going to sing, I am going to give it my all.
Bring on that karaoke version of Hound Dog on YouTube.
It is wonderful to feel totally on again, not just halfway there. My thoughts are not turning to when I can go back to bed or the next cup of hot tea or finding a blanket so I can be a part of the simple goings on in my house (which by the way needs a thorough cleaning). After three weeks spent trying to get over a cold that coupled itself with a nasty cough and nasal congestion, I am thankful for the return of good health. I plan to guard it at all costs.
All of this down time has helped me make some important decisions. Back in November, I complained about the ennui I was feeling. How I saw many roads and was not sure which to follow. I felt a lack of purpose in my life, a lack of giving and a lack of using my talents to their full potential.
I decided to go ahead with the magazine. I had done so much research already that I know which printer to use, I know how I want to distribute the magazine, I know the approximate monthly costs. Oh, and I already have a logo thanks to a designer friend of mine. Writers are not hard to find because I know many and believe that others will come along. I have come to realize that sales people are out there and I will find them. The tough part is finding a backer. I am ready to do that.
The next improvement of the year is to find a charity to give my talents to, whether it is a few hours a week or a month. Last week, I called my local Habitat for Humanity and offered my services. I am happy to do whatever but did make the request to do any needed writing.
Lastly, I am doing an overhaul of my personal appearance. I need a new haircut and to put my wardrobe into one that is well put-together whether it is a casual day or dress up day. After going through catalogs and magazines, I believe it will take only a few pieces to get there. Trouser cut jeans, a black pencil skirt and a wide black belt are the building blocks I need to buy. I can make a few new skirts with material I already have in my stash. The boots that I saw and loved at Prada for Breakfast will have to wait till next fall.
I have other goals that include getting to a networking situation once a month and finding ways to earn more money until the magazine is up and running. Plans are underway to be a better mom and to be better to myself. I am trying to be reasonable in my goals but understand that doing the little things, one day at a time, is what is going to help me get to the place I want to be.
How are you making this year a better year for you?







that’s so funny, I made the same goal about changing my appearance. A really great friend of mine gave me a lovely make up kit for Christmas, complete with “how to” instructions, so one of the small steps I’m going to take to feel better about myself is put on make up every day. I started this morning and I feel great.
good luck with all of your goals.
Thanks, I am hoping to succeed this year. One little thing I plan to do every year – have a pot of tea in the afternoon when I get home from work.
Tea is such a nice treat. I have a pot designated the “office pot” it’s great to have something so warm and comforting just waiting there for you. It’s also a great excuse to get a fab tea cozy
Wow, sounds like your year is already off to a great start! I know the feeling you’re talking about – I usually get it after a good workout and shower (and then curling up with a great book and a cup of tea, of course)…the problem is getting the motivation to work out!
Good luck with your magazine! It sounds really fun, I was always interested in publishing magazines…when I was younger I started a few among groups of girls. It was fun. Hope your style goals also come along well
-Halie
Oh, that tea and a good book can really start the day right. I recently found your blog and love what you do. The mix of colors and clothing are wonderful and so hip. It inspires me. Thanks for stopping by.
Yay – you’re feeling better and making plans. If that’s not a great start to the year, I don’t know what is. Cheers!
Thank you!! I started feeling better last week and it all fell into place.
I’m glad you’re feeling better! What a horrible way to spend the holidays. Your energy and your goals are inspiring. Wishing you all the best with the magazine – it sounds so exciting. As does shopping for new clothes.
I like that you ask thought-provoking questions at the end of your posts. I’ve been so busy that I haven’t had a chance to think about how I might make this a better year for me. Probably stop being so busy would be a good start. Vermont sure was a step in the right direction. But I did more eating than thinking, apparently!
Wishing you all the best for the new year, too!
Does that mean a new exercise regime is in your future?
Does that mean I would have to have an old exercise regime? If yes, I’m in trouble.
You do not need an old regime but you might need one period.
Love new clothes.
Ditto!
Best of luck with everything, particularly the magazine. That’s pretty awesome…
I am excited about it. Terrified on drumming up money but I can do it.
You do sound very focused and motivated. I wonder if you can will yourself to have that attitude. I find that it just comes over me, literally out of the blue, and not nearly often enough; it would be great if I knew where the on-off switch was.
Is there an older post about the magazine? I’d like to learn more about it.
Glad you’re feeling better, and that your year got off to such a great start.
Look for the post named “Ennui.” That is when I did not have the energy to focus. That was followed by December’s long, long cold for me. Literally at the the end of the year I started to have energy once more. But there is more to the story that has to do with what I was trying to work with the husband. To paraphrase Facebook, “It’s Complicated.”